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Tuesday, March 14, 2006

Hello America


Hello America
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More Photos at home. Laney is getting more and more used to her life in America and she is having fun doing it. She has more smiles for everyone everyday. Life is Good and it's better with her in our lives.

Welcome Home Pics


Welcome Home
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We finally got around to posting the photos of our return home. Enjoy!!!

On the home front

I have been scolded a bit for not adding more to our blog with pictures. So today will be a treat for some of you.

Let's see, I dont think we posted any pictures of our arrival. We got in very late and I was told by my Father-in- law how awful I looked. (gee, its not like I had a two day trip from China with a baby) So please look past my appearence. We were very happy to be home and you will see how happy Wesley and Austin were to have us home with their little sister.

It has now been just over a week since we got back and although its been a bit of an adjustment, we are settling in. Laney took about 5 days to get used to the time change, but had made her own sleep pattern that works well. She sleeps from 10 pm to around 6:30 am, naps from 10-12, then again from 4-5 or so. She was very weak at crawling, but in just this short time, has begun to go all over the house and wants to walk with me holding her fingers. She will only do this for me, and on rare occaisions, Kevin. She enjoys it more with shoes on (go figure). She loves her bath!!!!

I worked in a daycare on a military base, when Kevin and I were newly married. I remember how we had to stick to a schedule or things did not get done. We did have SOME time to play with the babies, but not alot, so I understand how an orphanage must get at times. I do not, nor can I get upset with the fact that most of the babies are a bit behind. The nannies are doing the best they can for these children, and I am forever greatful that Laney had them and our Heavenly Father to care for her. I must say that I am rather happy to be the one to see some of the "first times" or strides she is making. She is a joy and I am glad to be the one teaching her and sharing in her accomplishments.

She is warming up to Kevin. Laney will give him kisses and has been letting him spend time with her without crying. Today she actually let him put her in the carseat, take her out, and has been playing with him (happily I might add) while I have been on the computer. I am blessed at the changes EVERY day.

She experienced Church for the first time this last Sunday, and sang though the entire worship service. She loves to sing, and wants the music on at meals. We have a CD player next to the table and knows what it can do, so she will reach for it and sings, until we start the music. I am so glad, I love to sing and to listen to music, now I have someone else in the house to do this with, while Kevin is at work.

Speaking of work, Kevin starts back to work tomorrow, and I am finally turning in my resignation from full time, today. I can help out part time until they fill my position, but I know Laney needs me home. I hope to work part time in an office, we will see what God has in mind. This is a test of my Faith. I now have to lean more on the Lord to provide. I know I will be facing "colder winds" but the Lord is trustworthy and will see us through. By no means are we going to be in the poor house!!! But I will need to make adjustments, and weed out bills we dont need. Raising a family is worth it.

We will post more, but dont expect it to happen tomorrow. Ha Ha

Saturday, March 04, 2006

We are Home!!!!!

Well we haven't posted in a couple days so, We thought we would catch every one up... First of all WE ARE HOME and very glad to be there. We had a great time and met some good people, but it is good to be home.

On March 2,2006 We got all the paperwork completed and loaded all the families, (about 50), into buses for a forty minute bus ride across Guangzhou to the new location of the U.S. Consulate adoption affairs office so we could swear an oath. We arrived went through a security point and then had someone verify that we still looked like our passport photos and then set around for another twenty minutes, and then the moment everyone was waiting for, actually about 15 seconds, we all raised our right hands and stated that we had told the truth.

Sorry no pictures, we wern't allowed to bing cameras. If you ask me, logistically speaking, I would pay for a limo for the one government employee to travel across town and meet fifty families and babies in a conference room and have them swear the oath rather than the way it is done now. Just seems easier and smarter, but the governement was involved so ....

After the ride home (hotel) we got busy packing and buying our last minute souveniers to get rid of our Chinese money. Good excuse anyway. We had dinner at a Cantonese Restaraunt with some friends one last time, this was where we had the group dinner and the assistant of our guides. It was a little different without them. After we politely declined the chinese tea three times they went ahead and served us the tea so we drank it.


We then ordered from the menu what appeared to be the safest items. this was the same place with the Fear Factor Menu on dispay as you go through the door there are pidgeons and chickens hanging in the window and the worms and beetles etc. Today they had special live turtles in a box Yummmy It was hard to decide between that or the double boiled pig lung. Despite the language barrier we ended up with a good meal and good company to finish the trip. We then returned to the room to finish our packing. Laney wasn't to excited to be put in the crib while we packed and cried (screamed) the whole time but we got it all done.

On March 3,2006 we got up at 4:30 am and put our luggage out the door then went to our last breakfast buffet. I will miss my Chinese Dim Sum for breakfast everyday but we won't miss the store keepers harrassing us to buy something when were within ten feet of their store. Shopping is a pain at Shaiman Island. You cannot walk through a store and look at items in leisure, You will be followed everystep and told exactly what your looking at and that it comes in different colors and sizes too. Even Big sizes. For example we would glance at a pair of shoes in passing and be told "These are shoes" "They come in big sizes too." etccc. Also "You buy more here I make good deal for you"

Anyway I will appreciate going to Wal-mart and being ignored, not smiled and waved to and then paying ten times the amount for items made in China that I would have bought while I was in China if they hadn't bugged me so much to buy it in the first place. It was a great deterrant for Tina and other wives who love to shop.

Enough on that, We then boarded our final bus to the airport and saw the sunshine again for the four out of fifteen days it came out while we were there. Our guides helped us get checked in and then we and two other families bid them farewell and went to our gate to wait for the plane.

The trip went well even though it was still long and long and long. Laney did well on the trip despite how, did I mention that it was a LONG trip, She only fussed a few times and threw up on Tina, another excuse to get a new shirt as soon as we landed in Los Angeles. However, the shirt was cheaper than lunch in Hong Kong. I ordered some pork chops with steamed rice and Tina had a tuna sandwhich and a bag of chips that cost $161.00 Hong Kong Dollars, about $23.00 U.S.

We arrived in LA and had to wait for immigration to do their thing, then Laney was officially an American Citizen. Again no pictures allowed in immigration. Your Government does not want proof that they work leaked out.

This is Laney and Tina after we touched down in Los Angeles, too tired for much fanfare but happy to be in America again.

Today if we want to, we can drink tap water!!!








After another nine hours of planes and airports we made it home to our boys and friends. Tina could see the boys as we taxied up to the airport terminal and she started crying before the plane stopped. The boys were staring out the window waiting for us to get off the plane. It was a wonderful sight to see them again and we are truly glad to be home and extremely thankful and appreciative of our friends who took care of them and our house and dog while we were gone We owe you all so much.

Laney greeted her big bothers Wesley and Austin with a smile and figured that they are all right. She had a little tougher time greeting the new time zone and sleeping in her new home for the first night, but the second night is going well. We will post more soon.